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How to be happier

by Caroline Wellingham | May 20, 2016 | Life Coaching
All of us want to be happier. We spend our lives searching for things that will make us happier. In fact, if you really think about it, our lives are dedicated to finding happiness. Every decision we make, every choice we take is to make us happier.

How to be happier

by Caroline Wellingham | May 20, 2016 | Life Coaching
All of us want to be happier. We spend our lives searching for things that will make us happier. In fact, if you really think about it, our lives are dedicated to finding happiness. Every decision we make, every choice we take is to make us happier.

How to be happier

by Caroline Wellingham | May 20, 2016 | Life Coaching
All of us want to be happier. We spend our lives searching for things that will make us happier. In fact, if you really think about it, our lives are dedicated to finding happiness. Every decision we make, every choice we take is to make us happier.

Ten ways to be happier

Here are ten things you can start doing to make changes in your life right now. I urge you to give at least some of these a go.

1. Random Acts of Kindness: By doing nice things for other people, you are actually making yourself happier at the same time. Why don’t you try this for a week? Try a random act of kindness every day. This results in you thinking about what good you can do for the world, what better way of living is there than thinking about other people, rather than yourself?

2. Say “Yes” More: What would happen if you spend just a week saying yes to everything? Why not give it a go and see what happens, see what adventures you open your eyes to rather than saying no and closing yourself off to potentially amazing things.

3. Practice Gratitude: In order to be happier, we should not focus on the things we don’t have, we should focus on the things we do have and be grateful now. No matter what is going on in your life, there are things to be grateful for, your family, best friend, beautiful sunrise or sunset, where you live, the people you work with etc. On a daily basis I write down three things I am grateful for, it is amazing all the things that you can be grateful for right now, give it a try.

4. Follow your dreams: If there is something you really want to do or somewhere you really want to go, then start working on a plan to make it happen. No one is going to do it for you.

5. Be happy now: Live in the present moment and be happy now. Don’t spend too much time in the past or in the future. Focus on the here and now.

6. Experiences: One of my favourite quotes is “Fill your life with experiences, not things. Have stories to tell, not stuff to show”. Studies have shown that the joy you feel when you buy new material goods wear off quicker than investing in experiences such as safari holidays.

7. Be sociable: Spend time with friends or meet new people.

8. Exercise: It has been conclusively proven that physical exercise is a powerful natural antidote to depression. Regular exercise releases endorphins, the happiness hormone.

9. Laugh: Laughter, even if initially it is forced, has been proven to lift our spirits and improve our overall well being and mood. Again it releases endorphins to make the body feel good. Why not book tickets to a comedy show?

10. Positive thoughts: Force yourself to have positive thoughts. Put mini coloured post-it notes around your home and every time you look at one you have to think of something that makes you feel good. This strengthens the neural pathways in your brain and reinforces the happy chemicals in your body.

I want to encourage you to try out the tips above, give it a go, because what is the worst that can happen? And the best that can happen… who knows, the world is your oyster.

What should you do next

Caroline Wellingham is an Accredited Career Coach and a certified NLP Practitioner. She loves encouraging, motivating and inspiring clients to achieve their career goals and ambitions. If you want to become passionate about your career and you think you could benefit from a career change coach then book in for a free 45minute consultation.

If you would like to purchase a guide on Becoming Passionate About Your Career & Personal Development, click here.

If you would like to attend my free Masterclass on the 5 Steps You Need to take to Find Your Dream Career, sign up to attend here >>>. It lasts about 40 minutes and will cover the following:

  • The 5 powerful steps you need to take in order to find your dream job this year.
  • Get really clear about your career goals and move away from feeling stuck in a career rut.
  • The key steps and actions you need to take to move from where you are right now to where you want to be in your future career.
  • Start to feel super excited and motivated to make a change in your career in 2018 and making it happen!

Ten ways to be happier

Here are ten things you can start doing to make changes in your life right now. I urge you to give at least some of these a go.

1. Random Acts of Kindness: By doing nice things for other people, you are actually making yourself happier at the same time. Why don’t you try this for a week? Try a random act of kindness every day. This results in you thinking about what good you can do for the world, what better way of living is there than thinking about other people, rather than yourself?

2. Say “Yes” More: What would happen if you spend just a week saying yes to everything? Why not give it a go and see what happens, see what adventures you open your eyes to rather than saying no and closing yourself off to potentially amazing things.

3. Practice Gratitude: In order to be happier, we should not focus on the things we don’t have, we should focus on the things we do have and be grateful now. No matter what is going on in your life, there are things to be grateful for, your family, best friend, beautiful sunrise or sunset, where you live, the people you work with etc. On a daily basis I write down three things I am grateful for, it is amazing all the things that you can be grateful for right now, give it a try.

4. Follow your dreams: If there is something you really want to do or somewhere you really want to go, then start working on a plan to make it happen. No one is going to do it for you.

5. Be happy now: Live in the present moment and be happy now. Don’t spend too much time in the past or in the future. Focus on the here and now.

6. Experiences: One of my favourite quotes is “Fill your life with experiences, not things. Have stories to tell, not stuff to show”. Studies have shown that the joy you feel when you buy new material goods wear off quicker than investing in experiences such as safari holidays.

7. Be sociable: Spend time with friends or meet new people.

8. Exercise: It has been conclusively proven that physical exercise is a powerful natural antidote to depression. Regular exercise releases endorphins, the happiness hormone.

9. Laugh: Laughter, even if initially it is forced, has been proven to lift our spirits and improve our overall well being and mood. Again it releases endorphins to make the body feel good. Why not book tickets to a comedy show?

10. Positive thoughts: Force yourself to have positive thoughts. Put mini coloured post-it notes around your home and every time you look at one you have to think of something that makes you feel good. This strengthens the neural pathways in your brain and reinforces the happy chemicals in your body.

I want to encourage you to try out the tips above, give it a go, because what is the worst that can happen? And the best that can happen… who knows, the world is your oyster.

What should you do next

Caroline Wellingham is an accredited career and life coach and a certified NLP Practitioner. She loves encouraging, motivating and inspiring clients to achieve their career goals and ambitions. If you want to become passionate about your career and you think you could benefit from a career change coach then book in for a free 45 minute consultation:

If you would like to purchase a guide on Becoming Passionate About Your Career & Personal Development, click here.

If you would like to attend my free Masterclass on the 5 Steps You Need to take to Find Your Dream Career, sign up to attend here >>>. It lasts about 40 minutes and will cover the following:

  • The 5 powerful steps you need to take in order to find your dream job this year.
  • Get really clear about your career goals and move away from feeling stuck in a career rut.
  • The key steps and actions you need to take to move from where you are right now to where you want to be in your future career.
  • Start to feel super excited and motivated to make a change in your career in 2018 and making it happen!

Let's talk about your next move

Whether you’re navigating a career change, preparing for interviews, or planning your next chapter, this is a space to share what you’re working toward. Send a message and I’ll be in touch to discuss how we can move forward with clarity and confidence.

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Let's talk about your next move

Whether you’re navigating a career change, preparing for interviews, or planning your next chapter, this is a space to share what you’re working toward. Send a message and I’ll be in touch to discuss how we can move forward with clarity and confidence.

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